The last time I blogged before my long break, I talked about
going to Nigeria, Turkey and Belgium. So anyways this is what I’ve been
up to this year, travel-wise…
I basically visited 3 countries over a four week period
between April and May, starting with Nigeria where I went for my friend Dayo’s
wedding. This was only my second time of attending a Nigerian wedding as an
adult, and my first time of being involved in the process (I was the chief bridesmaid).
The whole thing took place over three celebration-filled days and it was crazy!
There were hundreds of people, tons of food and I discovered/learnt about so many
new (to me) Nigerian traditions. The traditional marriage/engagement ceremony took
place on the Friday, the church wedding on Saturday and the thanksgiving on the
Sunday. Friday was really a hard day for me, because I was so busy that I didn’t
have the time to eat, and I felt completely overwhelmed with the crowd of
people, the noise and the general ambiance. At one point during the day I even
broke down in tears, because in addition to the stress, I was helpfully shouted
at a few times, because they felt I was inept as a bridesmaid. At
almost 30years old, I had never been to such a ceremony and had certainly never
participated, so I had no clue!
Still, so many great memories were created during that
weekend. The traditional marriage/engagement ceremony was particularly
interesting for me, because I got to see so many things. The bride, being a
child of two cultures, decided to incorporate bits of each side of her into the
day. Her mum’s family is from Lokoja (central Nigeria) and her dad is an Ikale
from Ondo state (south) and it was nice to see the aspects of both cultures
represented, including the beautiful “aso-oke” worn by the bride and groom, the
ululating and traditional dances, and of course the wonderful calabash music. I
got to eat lots of food that I hadn’t eaten in a long time – agbalumo, kunun,
wara, suya, kilishi etc.
Agbalumo (African star apple)
Kilishi (Spicy, peanut flavoured, sun-dried beef jerky )
Wara (Cottage cheese/curd)
We also travelled quite a bit between Ife, Okiti pupa, Ore, Ogun
state, and I went shopping with my friend at the famous Balogun market in Lagos.
This market is like Peckham on steroids (I never go to Peckham
because I find it overwhelming!), it feels like there are millions of people pushing/shoving you,
it's super noisy, crowded and I’m sure you can buy pretty much anything there.
I ended up feeling dizzy and almost fainted a few times, but I was really proud
of myself for surviving such a bona fide Nigerian experience particularly since I
was just recovering from an accident and wearing a neck brace (story for
another day!)...
All in all, I really enjoyed my time in Nigeria, especially
because I experienced/re-experienced so many things.
Next pit stop for me was Istanbul where I spent about 16hours. I had decided
to fly Turkish airlines to Nigeria, even though it wasn’t the cheapest airline,
because I heard that the company provides a free layover service for its
clients. If your waiting time in Istanbul is more than 6hours, you get to
choose between a hotel room and a tour of the city. I had just seen Argo (the
Iranian revolution, Ben Affleck), which had some scenes shot in the Hagia Sophia, and
was itching to go see the church. So I deliberately booked my return ticket to
allow for a long layover and took full advantage of the almost 100% free trip -
lunch, buses, entry fees and everything else was gratos, although I think I had
to pay £10 for my visa (3month, multiple-entry for Brits). I made a few new
friends, had lovely food and got to see so many wonderful places including the Blue mosque, Hippodrome, German fountain, Serpentine column, Obelisk of Thedosius, Hagia Sophia
museum, Basilica cistern, Spice bazaar
and New Mosque.
Spice bazaar (Site of my "beyoncé-ification")
One really funny (slightly racist??!) thing did happen in Istanbul, and I
still shake my head and giggle whenever I think about it. We had just arrived at the Spice bazaar, when
there was a bit of commotion and people started shouting Beyoncé’s name. Feeling
excited about seeing her (I wondered if she was touring like me haha!), I
turned my head in all directions desperately trying to catch a glimpse but
then I suddenly realised that all eyes were on me. I “was” Beyoncé!!! Flustered,
embarrassed and slightly bemused, I ignored them and just kept walking. It was
really weird because I look absolutely nothing like her, but it was such a memorable
way to end my time in Istanbul.
One week after that, I was on my way to Bruges with friends
on my first trip to Belgium. Bruges is such a quaint, picturesque, lovely
little city, and we spent the first couple of days walking round the city, going to
museums and eating delicious Belgian food. On the third day however, we decided
to do a bike tour, cycling more than 50km from Bruges all the way into Holland.
We took the scenic route along the canal, going through the beautiful villages
of Sluis and Damme, where I saw the famous windmill. We stopped only briefly
for photos and lunch, and I can tell you that by the end of the trip I could
hardly walk.! Still, I thoroughly enjoyed my first experience of a cycling holiday.
Damme and its windmill
After that month, I felt like I really needed to recover and
enjoy Paris. I haven’t really travelled much since then except to London for
the unmissable Notting hill carnival in August, Kent to see my parents, and just this week
to Utrecht for a friend’s PhD defense/party.
